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What's your meetup style: spontaneous or planned?

2026-04-27·1,265 votes

Top answer

Last-minute vibes, let’s go now

42.7%

Nearly 43% of members describe themselves as last-minute planners — they want to meet up now, not next week. Only 13% want a fully structured arrangement. The community leans spontaneous, which is worth knowing before you send that first message.

Full results

Last-minute vibes, let’s go now

42.7% 540 votes

Light planning, keep it flexible

26.4% 334 votes

Depends on my mood that day

17.5% 221 votes

Fully planned, I like structure

13.4% 170 votes

How different member types voted

Breakdown by member type — Male, Female, Couple, and Other — for the top answers.

Last-minute vibes, let’s go now — 42.7% overall

Male
410
Female
85
Couple
34
Other
11

Light planning, keep it flexible — 26.4% overall

Male
233
Female
49
Couple
40
Other
12

Depends on my mood that day — 17.5% overall

Male
154
Female
45
Couple
12
Other
10

Fully planned, I like structure — 13.4% overall

Male
95
Female
37
Couple
29
Other
9

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