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Should your friends have "veto power" over your casual flings?

2026-05-06·1,029 votes

Top answer

No, my flings my rules

45.8%

46% of over 1,000 members said simply: no, my flings, my rules. It's the clearest signal of how this community thinks about personal autonomy. Friends get consulted on the serious stuff — casual arrangements are personal territory.

Full results

No, my flings my rules

45.8% 471 votes

Sometimes, if they spot red flags

16.9% 174 votes

Yes, they know me best

14.8% 152 votes

I dont even know what that is. Explain!

13.9% 143 votes

Only if it is getting serious

8.6% 89 votes

How different member types voted

Breakdown by member type — Male, Female, Couple, and Other — for the top answers.

No, my flings my rules — 45.8% overall

Male
365
Female
58
Couple
35
Other
13

Sometimes, if they spot red flags — 16.9% overall

Male
108
Female
36
Couple
19
Other
11

Yes, they know me best — 14.8% overall

Male
101
Female
38
Couple
8
Other
4

I dont even know what that is. Explain! — 13.9% overall

Male
94
Female
32
Couple
16
Other
1

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